Adaptable Discipline
for Therapists
A newly developed supplemental framework for improving comeback speed in clients with ADHD, executive dysfunction, and recurrent habit drift.
What is Adaptable Discipline?
A non-punitive, systems-based approach proposing to help clients return faster to meaningful habits after inevitable drift.
Primary Fit
Adults with ADHD, executive dysfunction, burnout, or recurrent habit drift with restart latencies >1 week. Best for clients with intact reality testing, moderate motivation, and willingness to experiment.
Core Metric
Comeback Speed: Time from drift onset to re-engagement. This replaces streak-based tracking with recovery-focused measurement that reduces shame and increases adaptability.
Four Pillars
Built on Mindset (self-compassion, adaptability), Purpose (Why Stack), Tools (friction-reducing utilities + reflective reframes), and Metrics (comeback speed + optional supports).
How Therapists Use This Framework
- Assess fit: Screen for contraindications (acute suicidality, active psychosis, severe MDD with marked anergia, active eating disorders)
- Establish baseline: Measure current comeback speed for 1-2 meaningful routines
- Map purpose: Use the Why Stack to anchor habits in client values (Goal → Motivation → Core Why)
- Design entry points: Create minimum viable versions of habits aligned with client's wiring (sensory needs, executive function style, energy patterns)
- Track non-punitively: Weekly comeback speed + 1-2 optional metrics (effort, shame/aversion, "overrode excuse" tally)
- Review & adjust: Treat drift as data, refine systems to reduce friction and emotional load
Potential Clinical Applications
This framework is designed to address these common therapeutic challenges
ADHD / Executive Dysfunction
May help reduce shame around "failed systems" by focusing on comeback speed instead of perfection. Tools could be designed for time blindness, transitions, and sensory load.
Depression Recovery
Could support gentle re-entry to self-care routines. Pre-staged tools (hygiene kits) may lower initiation barriers during low-energy states.
Burnout & Caregiving
Designed for systems that scale back without collapsing. Purpose Pillar aims to keep personal goals connected to values even during crises.
Addiction Recovery
May support rapid re-engagement with support routines (meetings, journaling). Aims to reframe missed actions as recoverable, not total relapse.
Hoarding Disorder
Could employ micro-wins lens for decluttering. Proposes tracking comeback speed between actions to reduce shame-driven avoidance.
Rehab / Physical Recovery
Intended to help maintain continuity of home exercises during setbacks. Aims to prevent functional decline through quick re-entry focus.
Safety & Clinical Boundaries
- Acute suicidality or active self-harm risk
- Active mania or psychosis
- Severe substance use disorder without concurrent treatment
- Severe MDD with marked anergia/psychomotor retardation
- Active eating disorder (structured protocols could entrench rigidity)
- OCD where "rapid return" could reinforce compulsions
- Complex trauma without adequate stabilization
- Unsafe environments or unmet basic needs
- High perfectionism/shame: Emphasize non-punitive language, micro-steps, longer on-ramps
- Chronic pain/illness: Coordinate pacing with medical providers
- Autism/ADHD: Adjust sensory load, transitions, cueing; allow extended warm-ups
- Subclinical OCD traits: Ensure targets are value-based, not ritualized
- Informed consent that this is an experimental adjunct to therapy
- Safety plan and clear stop rules if distress/functioning declines
- Metrics are for feedback, not judgment (discontinue if they increase distress)
- Collaborative stance (client co-designs systems, not imposed)
📥 Download the Complete Therapist Guide
23-page PDF including: Quick Start Checklist, Four Pillars breakdown, Clinical Application Guide, Safety Protocols, 6 Proposed Client Profiles, and implementation tools.
Seeking Pilot Therapists: If you're interested in piloting this framework with 2-3 clients and providing feedback, we'd love to hear from you. Your clinical insights will help refine this approach.
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